Videos & Podcasts on Love & Relationships



All online through TedTalks, YouTube, or another publicly available source.

“Before You Get Married, Watch This” from Prince Ea

“The Demon Dialogues” [added alternative title from The Couple’s Syllabus] (quick explanation of patterns of disconnection in relationships)

“Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” from the Gottman Institute

“The Gift and Power of Emotional Courage” with Dr. Susan David

“How Can Couples with Children Maintain Intimacy in their Relationship?” with Drs. John and Julie Gottman

“How Can I Improve My Marriage in 30 Seconds?”  with Dr. John Gottman

“How Couples Sustain a Strong Sexual Connection for a Lifetime” with Dr. Emily Nagoski

“The New Frontier of Sex & Intimacy” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“The Laws of Love” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“Problematic Beliefs about Relationships” by Dr. Justin Lehmiller

“A Queer Vision of Love and Marriage” with Tiq Milan and Kim Katrin Milan

“Science with Sue, Episode 1: The Key Defining Factors in a Couple’s Relationship” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“Science with Sue, Episode 2: Changing Channels During Conflict” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“Science with Sue, Episode 4: Pinpointing Emotions” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“Science with Sue, Episode 5: Setting Up Great Sex” with Dr. Sue Johnson

“The Sex-Starved Marriage” with Michele Weiner-Davis

“The Six Year Marriage Therapy Delay is a Myth” with Dr. Bill Doherty of the Doherty Relationship Institute

“They Decided to Get Divorced” with Dr. Bill Doherty of the Doherty Relationship Institute

“What Distinguishes the ‘Masters’ from the ‘Disasters’?” with Dr. John Gottman

“What Makes Same-Sex Relationships Succeed or Fail?” with Drs. John & Julie Gottman

“Why Won’t He[*] Apologize?” with Dr. Harriet Lerner [* TCS Note: Substitute ‘He’ for Anyone of Any Gender]

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